Happy 4th to everyone (nsfw but you shouldnt be at work today)

So one of my ex’s calls me up and starts flirting.

“you just want to have sex with me… im not gonna come over”

me:  ”you should bring me food.. I’ll just meet you outside for a few mins “

“you just want stuff from me.. i’m not doing it if I can’t come inside” (she wants to sleep with me)

me: “im not that easy.. besides.. I don’t know if I’d sleep with you”

“you always say that. I know I could get it from you if I wanted to. I know how to get you to have sex”

me: “are you calling me easy?”

“you are easy..”

me: “only if the girl is cute”

“I’m a lot cuter now.. (random qualifying shit)”

Oh yeah.. she has a boyfriend now.. (ha-ha)

Happy 4th of July everyone.

Go out there and enjoy everything life has to offer.

the reality of frame control (nsfw)

It really doesn’t matter what you do.. nearly as much as how you do it. (how it is perceived)

the frame is absolute. the frame is real.

you can create your own reality and get rid of any attitude or shit test if your frame is solid

everything you do... its all about the frame

this is why we can call certain people fake nice or fake.. because even though they are saying nice things and being polite… we can tell through the frame that they don’t really mean it so it doesn’t come off congruent.

You can walk up to a girl and say “the ice cubes in your drink look funny” (even if there are no ice cubes)

as long as the asshole high value frame is there you will be banging her later.

On the other hand – if you have a beta chump frame… it doesn’t matter what you tell her.. it wont work.

If you don’t make girls earn every little thing… if you don’t make it a struggle… it won’t be valued – you will just be another pushover chump with a wallet.

This is why I advocate treating most girls like complete trash… this serves 3 purposes

1. You are working your frame (if the frame is good.. it doesn’t matter what you do.. you can still get what you want.. so in this case being a complete dick is good practice)

2. It makes them work harder and appreciate you more because they have to earn everything. I encounter much less LMR, flaking, bitchiness, etc when I straight up treat women badly.

3. its actually pretty amusing at times. (its hard not to smile when a girl you’ve just banged says “you’re such an asshole” and cuddles up next to you lovingly)

the frame you are trying to set is that you are better than them (random girls).

in fact.. I routinely tell girls that they are trash (with the way I come off).. almost like a challenge.. but also an indirect statement of value.

Why set this frame?

because you are better. If you ever think that a girl is too good for you or anything similar to this.. your brain will subconsciously fuck up your frame and you will end up being a huge pushover.. putting her on a pedestal.. being the nice guy.. and messing up everything.

If you honestly don’t believe that you deserve  the best in life.. if you aren’t narcissist, if you don’t look at yourself in every mirror you pass and smile… you know thats fucked up.

I would not be able to call myself a man if a woman had a stronger frame than I did.

In the end… frame control is about power, status, and value. If you can master a strong frame… success will be yours.

If not.. you could always pay for a dinner date. hahahahah

Relationship Toxicity

A lot of players get fucked over by relationships.. pure and simple

this comes from not understanding the cycle… (everything amazing at first… you get sucked in.. slowly it gets bad)

I don’t recommend ever taking relationships seriously but if you do.. theres something you need to know…

people get way too attached… way too committed

Over time relationships go bad.. the brain chemicals don’t do it anymore..people change..problems arise..

the problem is.. a lot of people see relationships as a “forever” thing.

A smart man once told me something:

“Nothing is forever”

thats exactly how you should approach a relationship. Don’t think of it as something forever.. just think of it as a fun time.. don’t invest too heavily into it..

You lose a part of yourself with every relationship that you mis-manage (by over-investing)

its like a food product that goes bad. Sure you can refrigerate it.. but damn eventually you gotta throw that shit out.

relationships have an expiration date.. u gotta know when to walk away

 

thx for visiting

The best “game” ever? (NSFW)

So you’ve decided to learn “game” …. its exciting at first..

who knows what that hb6 is going to say when you open her with an opinion opener.

aww damn.. she just wants to be friends.. guess I need to neg the next one harder.. yeah!

hey look another girl!

oh damn better put in that false time constraint.. gotta make her think you aren’t staying around long.

this can be a leak in your game if you don't realize it

but the problem is… you’re already making it TFO (too fucking obvious). Any time a girl sees you putting in effort.. she sees you as the chump. Hundreds of guys have done this before… she knows you are desperate. You’ve walked up to her.. you stand to get rejected (unless you offer something valuable) .. you are taking the risk… in her eyes (she is already the prize).

At first the effects of this wont be obvious… she will listen to you talk for a little while and maybe even entertain the notion while she sizes you up.. but over time the deck is stacked against you.

the more you talk… the more you do things for her… the more effort you put.. the more you put up with her shit.. the nicer you are… the more likely you’re going to get tooled..

why?

because at the end of the day she doesn’t want that shit.

She wants the guy that has been giving her the cold shoulder all night.

The “asshole” guy that has been ignoring her.. unimpressed by her beauty..

The guy that she can’t have…

She wants to be man-handled, taken advantage of, and dominated…

now im not saying don’t ever approach .. but just think about it.. if you were a valuable guy getting everything you wanted.. would you even have to approach? You wouldn’t… girls would be throwing themselves at you.. you would be saying no to them and trying to protect yourself..

Would you even put any effort in? you wouldn’t have to.

When you put in too much effort (investing your time, energy, money, emotions into a girl) you are bound to get taken advantage of (and come off as needy/worthless).

Don’t ever forget.. shes just a girl.. thats it.. one girl out of millions.

You should not get worked up or even “care” about her. It may be hard to stomach this at first.

Do you remember that piece of watermelon you ate 2 years ago? Neither do I.

You can enjoy the juicy sweet goodness and throw away the rest.. minimal effort.. maximum pleasure

The amount of investment you put into a girl/relationship shouldn’t exceed the amount of investment someone puts into their lunch. Just eat the damn food…throw away the trash and move on.. if you’re working hard at it.. you’ve already lost.

I will end this post with the following thought-provoking question: *cue suspense music*

Is the best game actually no game at all? (not doing anything stupid by being needy and talkative and gay…just letting nature run its course… having your way with the girl)…

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thx for reading

Top 10 Signs you are a “beta” male.

I couldn't find a picture of a beta male so we will go with this...

1. You have never initiated a break-up with a girl.

2. You have never been arrested, never been in a fight, never got into any kind of trouble..ever.

3. You buy girls things like flowers, jewelry, expensive bags, etc.

4. You dress very boring and conservative because you are afraid of standing out.

5. You hold the door for her, always act respectfully, and put her on a pedestal.

6. You back down from any kind of confrontation… afraid of the consequences.

7. You ask her if you can take her pants/shirt off.

8. You are quick to apologize at the first sign of trouble (argument).

9.  You often find girls telling you that they “just want to be friends”.

10. You call her back/text right away and answer her question as clearly as possible.. you offer no challenge out of fear of loss..

If you want to bang sluts you need to get rid of these "nice guy" behaviors

The allure of mystery

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Showing a skillful use of underhanded tactics to achieve goals

You cannot always play it straight to get what you want.. sometimes you gotta do something crazy

As we all know- girls are always thinking and figuring shit out.. its part of their nature. Roissy calls this the infamous “hamster running on a wheel”.

When you don’t create mystery… you make it too easy for the hamster.. and the girl sees right through you. The Facade is over. She gets bored and starts looking for something better…more interesting.. a new high (a new guy).

The puzzle cant be too difficult or she will lose interest.. but it can't be too easy either.. it has to be just tempting enough

Relationships/marriages are no escape from the puzzle-solving nature of the hamster.. this is evident from the breakup/divorce statistics.

In a relationship.. a girl typically figures out a new guy in about 3-6 months.. at some point the guy stops amusing her.. the chemicals stop flowing… and the relationship dies like a flame extinguished by a massive wave.

nothing is forever

This is why you need to slow down the process.. you need to fuck with her head a bit.. create some drama/tension/suspense/jealousy… these things make a relationship interesting. (similar to a movie plot)

Girls these days are completely fucked up.. if you play the nice guy that gives her everything she will just label you “tool” and solve that puzzle immediately.

Looks innocent enough.. until you realize that cube is your relationship.. and when shes done solving you- shes on to the next guy

If you keep the game interesting.. shes gonna wanna play along.. all night long.. heh

If you know how to play the game- she could spend years of her life trying to understand you… ideas and thoughts of you would consume her brain.. She would always be loving you.. working for you..figuring you out..

Its up to you if you wanna take it that far…

either way.. if you want to succeed you’re gonna need to know how to tempt her

The right way to think about sex.. (NSFW)

a lot of guys think about sex as a prize that they can get if they are lucky..

“damn bro I hope I get laid tonight”

or

“yo man I got laid like four times this week. sweet huh?”

This subconsciously switches the value of sex from something minor and insignificant to something crazy like the lottery.

Girls can easily sense when a guy values sex and this comes across as needy behavior.. even just something minor like an awkward smile (getting excited at the thought of sex) could tip a girl off to the fact that you aren’t preselected. This would kill your chances…

Sex is not something you “get” from a girl.. sex is something you “give” to a girl if you feel she deserves it. You’re not lucky… she is lucky to be getting your dick.. and she should be worried about it/working for it/thinking about it/concerned with it.

If you wanna be a champion.. you gotta think like a champion..

All you have to do is sit there and look  good, radiate value, and dangle the bait.. she (a girl) will eventually take it.. and you can do as you please….. you could even refuse her if you so desired.

We all want the chemical high that comes with sex – what separates the amateurs from the veterans is the ability to hide desire in such a way that sex is something she starts chasing/asking  for.. at which point you can just “give in”.

thx for reading.

The waiting game.

Game is all about discipline… patience….being Ice Cold

If your value is on the edge (aka – you aren’t blessed with super good looks, tons of money, etc) you better get good at the waiting game.

What is the waiting game?

Basically this is when you wait a girl out.. You don’t send her needy ass texts, you don’t chase her.. you just let her do all the work. Sure you flirt a bit, throw her a few words here and there(a feeler text)… but she does the chasing.

Girls are programmed to chase after high value guys.. she will do it if you don’t suck at game.

A lot of times girls will do dumb shit like not answer your text or flake on you. If you’re good at the waiting game you will just hang around and pursue other girls while banging other sluts waiting patiently.

Eventually she will work for you if you outplay her. Yeah it sounds dumb.. but what are your other options?

Amateur Game Guy (invests needlessly into this “one” girl):

1. Sending a bunch of needy ass texts

2. Calling multiple times

3. Gets put in friend zone (hurt feelings, ego, etc)

Pro Game Guy (doesn’t give a fuck if he never hears from her again- or at least makes it seem that way)

1. Banging other girls in the meantime

2. hitting the gym.. pursuing life dreams..

3. oh whats this.. some random chick from a month ago? cool.

Outplaying her at the waiting game is crucial if your value isn’t top notch..

Do not be the first one to fuck up.. because that makes you the chump chasing her.

Its okay for her to contact you (at which point you reciprocate a little bit.. give her that little bit to chase)

it might take three days, a week, maybe even a month.  (now you see why having multiple women is important)

it doesnt have to look like this.. you could be doing other stuff

hell… i’ve had some girls/exes contact me (tryin to get some) after years of radio silence.. eventually they all come crawling back when they realize you’re value is up there.. its up to you if thats cool or not

if you’ll take them hoes back.

but one thing is for sure.. you better get good at the waiting game.

wait out girl A while working girl b,c,d,e,f,g,h,i,j,k etc.

so you don’t just sit around doing nothing.. but the same idea applies.. in her mind she should wonder “wow.. hes forgotten about me.. blah blah blah *stupid hamster shit* etc”

the key is to have many girls in the rotation.. you want to avoid committing too much time, effort, thought, etc to just one girl..

if you forget everything else in this post.. remember this.

bitches work for you.. you don’t work for them

Getting her to chase (NSFW).

This is fucking critical.

In the wild, chasing shit is necessary for survival. However... you are not a Siberian tiger.... so don't go around chasing girls.. it will not work.

if she is not chasing you– you don’t have hand.. which means you don’t have shit.

Unfortunately the game isn’t easy.. if your value is not where it needs to be… girls just won’t chase – you got 2 options

1. increase your value.. make her chase (push/pull – gym – game tricks – etc)

2. chase her (and lose everything in the process)

the choice is yours..

chasing can manifest itself many different ways -

1. she is desperately in love with you.. will go to any length to please you.. wants to see you

2. calls you often.. texts you often.. thinks about you a lot

3. complies with almost anything you want-

She should always be working overtime trying to please you.. she should always be thinking "what else can I do to make him happy"

You want her to chase.. but you don’t wanna be that guy chasing her.

basically- make it hard for her.. don’t be that guy offering everything (your attention, your money, your value, your love) the minute she smiles at you… those guys are tools.. they get used and abused.

Make her work ridiculously hard for the smallest thing.. if she does something bad just ignore her and take away everything.. it sounds ruthless because it is.. you literally have to make her earn things..

in todays society.. people don’t appreciate things they get easily (and take them for granted). everyone wants instant gratification with no effort… girls are no exception.. you make it easy she will be at my house bent over asking why im such a jerk after she texts you and tells you shes sick doing college homework.

If you can’t get her to chase you…

you might as well be that guy thats like “hey baby I love you.. please come over”

and you think she will go for that? Hell no.

yeah its tempting to just jump in and tear everything off and go(amateur move..).. discipline always leads to a greater reward

Mini reactions. (NSFW)

This post is about taking risks.

lets say you want to express your love for a girl (terrible idea)

you don’t want to right away just bam let her know.. that would be a huge risk

“hey baby I love you”

why?

because she might never talk to you again (lol) or worse you might be forever put into the friend zone or the creep zone or the this guy is never getting laid again zone.

After any colossal fuck up you basically have to wait a long time to get anywhere with that one girl again so its a huge waste of time if you wanted her.

Now .. obviously most players aren’t going to tell girls “I love you” because they know better… but there are still other similar (less obvious) ways to fuck up and drop your value.

Such As:

1. giving her too much attention

2. too many compliments (or too nice)

3. working too hard.. pushing too hard for something

How do you know you’re fucking up? When she starts reacting badly (being difficult, bitchy, etc)

When something isn’t working smoothly.. take a step back and chill.. text another girl.. grab a beer..

Yeah... this looks safe...(Crazy guy trying to heat up water in the middle of nowhere...) Sure it might work this one time but there are easier ways

So how do you prevent your value from falling like the stock market? you test the waters by paying attention to the mini reactions all around you(plausibly deniable small things)

for example.. instead of saying I love you… you yell (You know.. I kinda like you) and judge how she reacts. If its positive you leave it at that (should be an easy lay).. If negative you could say something like (I’ve had too much to drink.. I gotta get back to my friends)

Every situation has reactions…

lets say you send her a text msg

“hey you around?”

and you don’t get one back ( she ignores it).

You got your answer. Don’t be a retard and send her anymore text messages.

The better you get at safely judging her reactions the more you can exploit her and get what you want on the first try.

think shes innocent?

Once you get real good.. you understand why its called a game. Its fun exploiting these bitches being a gentleman.

Enjoy!