not the first thing I thought of either. Lol
Women are incredibly manipulative.. However, they need you to fuck up first.
If you show general neediness, affection, or display any kind of weakness you will get taken advantage of in ways that most guys could never comprehend. At best your feelings will get hurt.. At worst you might be making court ordered payments for a kid that isn’t yours.
The point here is.. You want the girl to do the work.. you want her to chase you.. invest in you.. want to sleep with you.
The best game-guys are the ones who do this day in and day out effortlessly with finesse.
Yeah.
she should be getting with you.. trying to get with you…working for you.. thinking about you.
just be that funny guy that pursues sex but doesnt make it blatantly obvious by being needy and try hard.
You can keep making moves but you have to do it in a subtle way. You have to abuse plausible deniability.
If you go too far, you’ve got to let it go- you can’t let her know your agenda because a smart girl will abuse the fact that you want to sleep with her.
Asking a girl to do something for you is a great indicator of her interest. If she isn’t willing to play cards, toss the hand away and move onto something better.
Remember, bitches work for you.. not the other way around.
All the best,
Ptk
October 4th, 2011 at 3:41 am
Intriguing post, Paul. Thanks.
You say, ‘You can keep making moves but you have to do it in a subtle way. You have to abuse plausible deniability.’
If you have a moment, maybe you give an example on how to abuse plausible deniability?
Cheers, AD
October 4th, 2011 at 10:26 am
This is what naturals do, my buddy’s got a chick right now and he is “push N pulling” her to perfection the chick is sprung to the 6th degree and he can smash whenever he wants
This works extremely well if your a high value guy or high value in the girls eyes, for the average guy this advice isn’t gonna work that well
October 5th, 2011 at 11:14 am
I’d like some advice here…so this buddy of mine knows a hot girl. she started talking to me through his fb page. Next thing I know she’s messaging me in my inbox. so she’s doing all the chasing and im acting as subtle as i can. one day she’s sends a msg relating to eating pussy. I respond with a laugh and told her thats not the kind of question i’d be answering people who arent friends with me on fb. i answered after but in a smart way. at the end of the conversation i decided to add her. its been 3 days and she hasnt accepted. 2day she pokes me and i msg her back asking what’s up and if she noticed my friend request. then i see a post on my buddy’s wall from her and it seems to be directed to me. i found it disrespectful so i cancelled my friend request. what’s my next move?
October 7th, 2011 at 1:52 pm
I would stop talking to her. Ignore her and move on. She would have taken your friend request if she liked you.
Act disinterested and aloof and perhaps she’ll come back and add you as a friend. In which you ignore it for a few days.
October 9th, 2011 at 12:51 pm
kool bro…thanks.
we spoke a couple times after that but she still hasn’t given in and added me.
So I’m going to take you advice.
She just said hello a while ago…we spoke for a few minutes and I told her I have to go do something (I really relaxing lol). She was upset that I cut her short.
Her: “okay
; okie
Her: boooo … I wanted to talk. hmmmph! -___-
HAHA!!!
October 13th, 2011 at 12:50 pm
Her: boooo … I wanted to talk. hmmmph! -___-
My reply: I’m too darn busy. Some other time (which is somewhat of a lie – I’m only gonna talk to her when we’re both DTF. Not as a friend – she has her girlfriends for that)
I’m going to ask you this – do you have a bunch of good-looking girls sending posts to your wall on it?
If so, then HOPEFULLY SHE’LL ADD YOU SOON. It will help you get laid with this chick easier.
If not, THEN FORGET IT. Don’t add her to FB until after you’ve banged her, or dismissed her as a non-fuck friend who you don’t give a shit about anymore because she never made the effort to get your dick.
Facebook can either help or destroy your chances of getting notches. It depends on how well your social value is.
October 9th, 2011 at 5:46 pm
agreed with Solo.
A good thing that was mentioned indirectly was the” asshole” persona.