From time to time girls do absolutely annoying shit… like they will cancel plans at the very last moment for a random (or so you think) reason (hamster gets nervous, better opportunity, boyfriend guilt, etc)
this would be your reaction in a picture..
the important thing is not to show any reaction or get mad.
make her think its her loss and make her wonder with a simple “alright”
don’t offer to reschedule… put the burden on her..make her feel like she just fucked up by missing out on a great night.
the truth is.. no matter what her excuse is… if you were better looking and more alpha/attractive..if she had less options she would go out of her way to see/bang you.
So really a flake is never legit.. it means there was not enough value/interest and she just didn’t wanna go for it. However, you can turn it around.
Just don’t be that guy that’s like
“wtf you stupid ho.. I can’t believe you did this to me..”
that will drop your value huge and she won’t even question her decision.
Instead you just say alright and hint at a possibility that another girl is going to get your time and a perfectly packaged night… that will drive her insane.
The reality is… girls do whatever they want
from having sex in club bathrooms to flaking on important dates to cheating on their husband… it can all be rationalized by the hamster. The only thing the hamster cares about is what it wants..
Go out there and take advantage of girls
August 2nd, 2011 at 3:03 am
ok one question! when you said: “Instead you just say alright and hint at a possibility that another girl is going to get your time and a perfectly packaged night”
is that not gonna make her want to bang someone else too ? lets think about it. When the girl likes you but she is beeing a player a little bit and testing waters on how I will act in dif. situations, but still wants to only have sex with me. could my responce “alright i’ll have some other cutie take your shotgun sit for tonight” responce make her say f@ck it, he prob. banging other girls I’ll bang someone else too than ?
we not together btw but we only sleeping with eachother.
Thanks.
August 4th, 2011 at 10:31 pm
Girls want what other girls want. If they perceive their man as having options, then they will be more attentive to their guy. It’s not a tit for tat situation with women. I think that’s what our host was getting at. Women are status oriented, so if she’s stepping out its someone with whom she perceives higher value. Making her think you’re high value brings her back.
August 7th, 2011 at 10:57 am
“that will drop your value huge and she won’t even question her decision.”
When she flakes on you, she is already drops your value.
August 7th, 2011 at 10:58 am
*dropping
August 7th, 2011 at 3:24 pm
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August 16th, 2011 at 5:43 pm
“When she flakes on you, she is already drops your value.”
Yes, but when you’re ice-cold in your response as Paul suggests it keeps it from dropping farther and at least you may build some intrigue with the girl