money, power, game, its all the same.. u gotta know what you're doin
so you’ve called her and left a voicemail (don’t ever leave voicemails btw.. keep the bitch wondering)
or maybe you sent her a text-message.. and she didn’t respond.
What the Fuck you think to yourself .. how could this bitch not answer me yo(hopefully you are such a baller that you don’t notice a non-response from a single girl)… “how could she possibly ignore me”.
and this is where a lot of guys go wrong. They think.. well maybe if I just keep sending texts/calling/chasing/being a chump I will show her how much of a loser/stalker/creep great guy I am.
Do not ever chase. If a girl ever gives you an IOD (indicator of dis interest) such as ignoring your phone call/text. Hell.. even if she turns around and does something rude to you.. you punish her ass for it.
I don’t mean like get mad and confront her.. cus that would make you look super lame and she would just make some excuses like “i lost my phone sorry” or some other lies. You would look even more like a fool when she finally convinces you haha.
If you don’t know the girl at all and this happens you aren’t really “punishing” the behavior since she doesn’t care but the concept is the same.. you dont “reward” bad behavior. If she wants to ignore you.. you just wait it out. Don’t call or send any more messages.. just let everything die out completely.. wait a week or two. I guarantee 99% of these girls will cave in once they realize they fucked up you are a real man that won’t bend to their mind games.
Its a pretty rough world out there.. but that doesn’t mean you can’t take advantage of situations you completely understand. Game is fucking key.. you absolutely have to know how her fucked up mind hamster works if you wanna get ahead and protect yourself from the bullshit.
go out there and take advantage
March 22nd, 2011 at 5:04 am
Nice one Paul.
Wish I had read a post like this 18 months back. By chance I did what you suggested but it would have been good for the confidence knowing the underlying game that’s being played out. The girl in question, after flaking on me big time, came back, but by then I never gave her a second chance. That was – and remains – a problem – giving a girl a second chance. Should you give a girl a second chance? I still know where this girl hangs out but it would mean chasing if I turned up where I know I could see her. Whatever…
March 22nd, 2011 at 5:04 am
This started happening with a girl I’ve had on the said for a while. She was way into me a few days ago. Then I sent her a text last night & got no response. I admit I started wondering what the hell was up. This post is perfect for me right now, Paul. Thanks, I sure needed it!
March 22nd, 2011 at 10:19 am
Met a blond on the field and she ignored my text, was contemplating about calling her, and paul came through with this
Good shit
On another note, if a girl does this, keep an abundant mind
*keeps macking on new hoes*
March 22nd, 2011 at 11:09 am
Great post Paul, and couldn’t have come at a better time.
Sending a text or calling again soon after a non-response screams of insecurity, much better to wait it out.
What’s the best form of follow-up action when she does reply though?
Thanks for the blog!
March 22nd, 2011 at 8:59 pm
Perfect C cups. For the win.
March 23rd, 2011 at 8:16 am
This was one of my earliest epiphanies with game and dealing with women. If you play it cool, worst case scenario… the girl never contacts you again. Best case scenario, she wants your cock even more and chases you, the elusive mystery male.
Years ago I made the mistake of actively pursuing women and bombarding them with texts and phone calls, completely oblivious to the fact that this turns women off, boosts their ego, and/or makes you appear desperate/stalker-ish. I never knew what I was doing wrong until discovering game, and now it’s a walk in the park.
March 23rd, 2011 at 11:20 pm
You made my day.
March 24th, 2011 at 12:07 am
So true. Last thing you wanna do is act as if she has the ability or the power to upset you. As we speak, I have a certain girl who has just completed week one of her “punishment”. Maybe I will call her next week or maybe I wont. Doesn’t really matter because something else always comes along…….
March 25th, 2011 at 2:25 am
Send messages that are “meant” for another girl. Start a jealous/y preselection plot going on. Act aloof
March 25th, 2011 at 11:45 am
@ Alpha Cat
This is way to transparent.
March 25th, 2011 at 12:41 pm
I am going through this right now….maybe I’ve already messed it up but I know for the future….great post
March 26th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
Yeah i wanna know what do you say when she reacts couple of days after you send her a msg
March 27th, 2011 at 4:30 am
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March 30th, 2011 at 2:49 pm
Damn who is the chick in the photo?
April 8th, 2011 at 12:22 am
It’s UNinterest, or better, NON-interest not DISinterest. They don’t mean the same thing, look it up.
July 3rd, 2011 at 1:12 pm
Totally disagree with this. On this point, Roosh and I are in agreement. If you are persistent and without self respect or shame, you can end up banging a girl that has disrespected you. Shake it off and drive on. At some point or another she’ll be vulnerable. It is inevitable. Once you have her naked, you can vent all your frustrations sexually and she’ll want you even more.
July 14th, 2011 at 10:49 am
I snt a gal a message, shuld i call her immediately?
October 5th, 2011 at 8:27 am
This is awesome! But what if she doesn’t even notice you’re ignoring her and never gets back to you?should one abort mission?
November 13th, 2011 at 11:20 pm
That makes 2 of us
I didn’t txt her for over a month and I’ve ignored her a couple times and nothing. I guess u just gotta move on. I’m still trying to.
November 2nd, 2011 at 11:23 pm
hmmmm the last coment has a point….well this still work even if i already txted her 20 times already..but i have stop for 4 days now..so i dont know….and oh yeah…..we already had sex but..i just wanted more
November 13th, 2011 at 11:59 pm
I would say just quit worrying so much and do what you think will work. You only live once. The Game is great, but unfortunately it has caused us to over analyze all our interactions with women.
November 17th, 2011 at 1:22 am
Ok so i tried this and what if she still dont come back?
November 20th, 2011 at 11:37 am
u are the fuking man!
December 5th, 2011 at 1:10 pm
thanks a lot i really like your advice i am gonna try and see what happens
December 12th, 2011 at 11:31 am
Awesome thanks man will try
December 17th, 2011 at 5:23 pm
This is a f u c k i n g shame when you’ve fallen in love with said woman, because I don’t want to play games with her, I want an authentic relationship. But she’s 21 years old and I don’t think she has any idea about how to attract or be with a real man, her last boyfriend was 19 and just a kid. I think the only thing she’ll respond to is silly games like this. Pity. The most ridiculous thing is I know she’s attracted to me and we’ve been casual friends for a year, but if I try and step things up she gets all weird and nervous and starts playing games.
February 20th, 2012 at 11:38 am
john what happened next , i want to know , me in same situation …
December 22nd, 2011 at 4:05 am
I hear ya man, but if you’re always honest with a girl and she trusts you and don’t have sex, things won’t get old and will grow into a greater love and there is more chance of being married if that’s what you want.
January 2nd, 2012 at 3:40 am
This is really good information, makes alot of sense. Thank you a heap!
January 4th, 2012 at 10:48 pm
I’ve made a quote it seems helpful it goes “Sure women may be one of the most complicated things on earth, but they can also be the most simplest things as long as you don’t give a fuck.”
January 12th, 2012 at 1:24 am
Thr this girl in my office! I like her! I found her noticing me sometimes we wr playing this game now she started ignoring me nd m doing the same bt will it work? Though i show it tough bt cant think of nything else! Wht shud i do now!
January 26th, 2012 at 2:54 am
Rofl
January 29th, 2012 at 3:59 pm
real talk bro. dem girls jus want that cock
good post brah
February 3rd, 2012 at 3:10 am
im stuck i approached her after some time of texting her not having ever met!!!went to her house and said she was busy and would find a time when she was free till yoday igot nothing now almost a month what should i do reply to my email
February 3rd, 2012 at 3:11 am
i really love her hellllllllppppp!!!!help me to get her to like me and so that we can fall in love
February 23rd, 2012 at 7:57 am
I know one girl from past tree month n before she was my friend she lie to me , that she have a boyfriend at home , and after some time I heard she have a boyfriend onboard n she know I like her I already tell her too many time , I give her some gift n she still refuse me , and make me like a dog , but I really want to fuck her , somebody can help me with this , if possible
May 4th, 2012 at 9:09 pm
any chick that is still playing this game is a “female player” and looking to get laid but doesn’t want you to get to know her well enough to let you in on her “dirty little secrets”…it’s social pressure and not wanting to be labeled a slut. ignoring works only sometimes, letting her know you are serious isn’t necessarily a bad thing. ignoring is just a game for getting laid…if you want more you have to show more. she has to want to get to know you though.
i fell for one a bit younger a few months back (we fell for each other i can say….keep their age in mind when assessing if it can be something serious). read on her FB she had just “fallen in love” about 3 days before we got together. it was close, she was trying to decide for about a month after. point is these chicks have other things going on and if it’s a one night thing or a big flirt, don’t be surprised if it’s not working and she is ignoring you.
she fell silent….i still write her something once or twice a month. who knows, maybe something changes. i dont feel “chumpish” about it. she hasn’t unfriended me. she probably likes it a bit….boosts her ego….whatever. at least we are staight and she knows i care. i will probably stop all communication soon too. too bad….could have been great. gotta move on eventually.
if you play the game….you will get played too. women are vengeful creatures.
depends what you are looking for.