A lot of guys know the game principles but fail to implement them or allow mistakes (I sometimes fuck up too)
proper discipline takes years to build.. and can be destroyed by one temptation that gets you every time.
some examples:
1. you know you shouldn’t pick up the phone every time your fav girl calls.. but you do.
2. you know you shouldn’t make it so easy for her to get what she wants but you do.
3. you know you shouldn’t give her as much affection, or be as kind, but you are..
4. you smash a lower quality woman than you know you are capable of, just cus its easy
this usually comes down to a lack of discipline.. or just being drunk..
Deep down, I think a lot of us hate the fact that game exists and works. We accept it, but we wish it wasn’t like this. On some level, game is hard. It requires discipline, change, and effort.
I mean, in a sense, game changes people.. its tough to find a balance between the identity/values you were born with (marriage,love,happily ever after) and being massively successful with women. If you are a generally nice and respectful guy – it may be difficult for you to treat women like shit.. you might even feel bad sometimes…
On the other hand, if you don’t respect the rules of the game.. well you will lose.. obviously..
the question is; are you willing to lose a part of yourself (or act incongruent) to get more success with women?
Game forces people down a path that isn’t necessarily optimal;
its a choice between the lesser of 2 evils;
1. ignoring game and failing with women (or getting taken advantage of at best)
2. changing who you are for pussy and power
most people are willing to find a balance between the 2.. this is where discipline comes in.
in fact.. discipline isn’t just in pickup.. your level of discipline correlates with your level of success in life.
if you don’t have discipline you don’t have anything..
think about it.
disciplined diet and workout= look great
disciplined school/job = great career lots of money
disciplined game guy = lots of high quality ass
on the other hand, consider lack of discipline in those 3 areas (health,wealth,love) – everything will crumble.

a lot of us have goals that never seem to get there... consider this post your motivation (practice some discipline)
I am not saying it is easy – but 99.9% of my mistakes in game and in life come from lack of discipline..
Thanks for reading.



November 6th, 2010 at 7:43 am
Excellently written. I need some discipline in my life. I can’t always take shortcuts or make excuses. Thank you.
November 6th, 2010 at 9:26 am
You’re welcome!
Thanks for visiting
November 7th, 2010 at 4:52 pm
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November 10th, 2010 at 3:58 pm
Agreed discipline can get you whatever you want. Just make sure you also know when to hold em and when to fold em. Go for concrete shit instead of ideals.
Also know that most things you will want to do will either be able or not be able to be done because of money and time.
November 10th, 2010 at 10:20 pm
We had a saying back in Texas called “want to”, to get things done youve gotta have that “want to” and with enough “want to” all things are possible. Guys are just mentally weak and often time take the easy way out. Gotta remember what is worthwhile is difficult!
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