Nice relaxing song -
there are times when you just don’t care about gaming a girl..
maybe there is something on your mind, or you are distracted….
maybe you don’t find her attractive… or maybe you are busy thinking about some other girl…
whatever the reason– this is actually a good thing..
It is important that you don’t game every single girl that you see.. sometimes (occasionally) I just act respectful and keep a normal conversation… a little bit of flirting is fun..
I didn't say it would be easy
some examples of when to avoid using game:
1. the workplace (its not worth losing your job and creating drama is it?)
2. siblings of good friends (I would not try to game my best friends sister.. even though she is hot.. for example)
3. girls you’ve known for a very long time (or family friends)
4. anytime the potential for awkwardness exists (a girl you might see on a regular basis, etc)
Sometimes things end up pretty funny. The other day my friend introduced me to this smoking hot girl and he was like “watch out.. this guy’s an asshole”. So all my other friends told her the same thing (to try to fuck with me.. since then if I was an ass, i’d be outed) and I ended up being really nice to her that night. The girl was super confused and ended up sleeping with me anyhow.. despite the warnings..
Okay maybe thats not a good example.. but you get the point– don’t always game every girl you meet
some girls don't need game.. (sluts)
November 4th, 2010 at 11:48 am
You say despite the warnings, but isn’t it because of the warnings? She thought you were X, you did Y, she was confused and intrigued -> sex. She figured there must be *something* to the warnings, so she slept with you to find out. I think that makes perfect sense in chick logic. You did the unexpected.
November 4th, 2010 at 4:48 pm
yeah.. the warnings served as sexual tension.
November 4th, 2010 at 2:15 pm
the warnings and you not following the script made her curious. fuck, chicks are so predictable. scratch that, people are so predictable.
November 7th, 2010 at 4:35 pm
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November 7th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Paul, you mind giving your input on this?
When I meet a new girl, I don’t use game. No teasing, no negs. Usually a compliment on her dress or an accessory. I might ask her a genuine question or two, and then add my opinion when she’s done. Often at times, the girl doesn’t say anything, so I just talk about random subjects to try engaging her to open up. So in other words I do what YOU do occasionally.
My asshole behavior comes out when I realize the girl is trying to game me in lowering my value. My stupid fat ugly woman friend told me to buy her a drink at the bar the other night and I got this look of ‘holy shit you fucking bitch I’m gonna smack you hard’ on my face and she backed off. She gave me the money and asked if I could go get it. I put it in my pocket and said ‘when I feel like it’. She went crazy and started fighting me for the money back, so I took the 4 bucks out and slammed it on the table infront of her. Then I went away and chatted some other girls up.
Seriously? Even an ugly girl like her playing games with me? I wonder what other wussies catered to her before she met me, and WHY.
Sorry about the ranting, but is this a good way to put women back in their place and realize that a decent, classy guy like myself shouldn’t be taken for a bitch?
November 7th, 2010 at 8:37 pm
If the girl is significantly below your value and tries to play games or make you jump through hoops just playfully ignore her (say no) and don’t let it get to you. The only time I show anger or make an effort is if the girl is worth my time.