Human nature.. insatiability

Human nature says that we always want more.. as soon as we get something… its no longer as desirable and we go on to chase the next big thing.

consequently.. as soon as we lose something- we want it more and more..

this is why girls pass on guys all the time as soon as they feel they can “get” with them easily.

So if you’re making it too easy for a girl and shes not working at all for you- that could be why you’re getting passed on.

Like Assanova said.. “challenge her”

Once you’ve built value with a girl.. the best thing you can do is instill this fear of loss in her… she has to appreciate you being around and your attention.

unfortunately.. theres no real easy way to do this-

the problem is that if you pretend to walk away and she tests you.. you actually have to do it.. otherwise you lose all credibility.

(whenever you tell a girl you’re going to do something.. she better believe that you will)

the fear of losing something important to you is a very real emotion but even more important.. sometimes when you lose something it makes it important to you.

aka.. the willingness to walk away = amplifying your value and her desire for you.

This is why I don’t ever fully open up or give myself to a girl.. as soon as she feels she has me.. she will get bored and try to move on to the BBD(bigger better deal). Its like non-stop challenge and push/pull.