Should you take the easy way out?

(note some of these ideas are not my own original work (they come from Paul Janka) so i’m not taking credit for them but rather sharing what works).

a lot of people like the easy way.. I personally think its great..

I mean.. if you got guaranteed sex from a decent girl one night… is it worth risking that for a slight upgrade at the cost of not getting any?

Even from an abundance lifestyle -taking too many risks is just stupid.. eventually you will get screwed and think to yourself.. damn why didn’t I go with that sure thing.. I could have got laid by a good looking girl tonight!!

One way to minimize risk and work in a relationship (whether it’s a one nighter or something more)  is to clearly define the roles throughout the interaction.

I’ve noticed that most of the time when a girl starts a fight or gives shit tests its because of the uncertainty or ambiguity of the situation. She doesn’t know her role and she doesn’t know your value relative to her so she is trying to assess the social situtation in her own way. If you are not man enough.. she will question you and try to change the roles of the relationship.

you must not let her do this.. at any cost. If a girl pushes it far enough (and she will) I punish her and you should too. This depends on how long I’ve known her but if its somewhat serious I yell and show anger. I laugh about it afterwards… (but she doesn’t know that)… you really gotta know how to act pissed sometimes. It works every fucking time.

Yeah roles are pretty important.

Some powerful role examples:

father role

alpha male role

mother role

friend role

girlfriend role

wife role.

Villain Role

hero role

so basically a role is a set of behavioral guidelines; kinda like a rulebook for women that tells them how they can and can’t behave.

its a social thing but it’s very very important that you establish these roles (rules) from the very start. It takes time to make this work and you also have to screen out the total retards. (some women are just crazy.. either bipolar or total druggies.. not all of them are with it..which doesn’t mean the sex won’t be great but you gotta draw the line somewhere)

by being a strong alpha male and setting a certain role you will maximize your chances at easy sex. You will eliminate LMR and you will do this all in a crazy way.

This is probably one of the most powerful techniques for cutting the bullshit and increasing compliance..I almost didn’t want to post it.

Role playing (not video games- nice play on words eh?) is like laying cement. Once that shit dries.. its a solid foundation for everything. This can be an extremely great thing but it could also suck if you do it wrong. Lets say you’ve laid the beta provider/bitchy girlfriend role.. oh man !.

What I usually do is frame the womans role as below me; its her job to please me sexually on demand and keep me happy in any way she can. If she doesn’t fulfill her role.. obviously she isn’t doing her job so I don’t validate or talk to her or anything.

the earlier you start with this in any kind of a relationship the more powerful her role becomes… especially if you’ve

made it personal like an inside joke or a nickname that really sets in (eg. Little boss/ Big boss concept)

eventually you have her taking care of you, respecting you, and buying you shit… but shes just doing her job.. both parties are happy.

When you start this role game.. make sure you do it in a playful way at first (txts/etc) so it doesn’t get rejected.. and slightly increase the seriousness.. (push/pull)

last minute resistance (lmr), flaking, and shit tests are all functions of role ambiguity. (credit P.J.) When the girl isn’t sure what role you play and what role she should play she will default to a friendly or safe role; she won’t go for that crazy sex role by herself.. you need to guide her into it.

thanks for reading!!