Rewarding a girl… how to do it right

People operate on the simple premise of chasing pleasure and avoiding pain.

if someone has a good experience with something they are likely to do it again… but if someone has a bad experience they are less likely to do something.

"damn"

the most powerful way to reward a girl is through intermittent rewards.. She has to work increasingly harder for a random reward here and there.. but when it comes to punishment (taking away your attention mostly) you have to give that out every single time she does something wrong. If you reward bad behavior it will continue to happen. When you use intermittent rewards you will get amazing amounts of compliance (girls will do pretty much anything and your skyrocket will value)..

yes I typed that backwards.. you understand it though

This all seems complicated but the basic premise is this;

Do not give a girl anything until she is having regular sex with you.

the more you give.. the more you will fuck everything up.. theres a direct correlation.

Also, this isn’t just about money.. could be your time.. your attention.. your availability to her.. you opening up (feelings).. you hanging around too long.

The only exception to this is if you are using the girl for other things (social circle/friend/buying you things). I’ve noticed that the more aloof guys are always getting their way while the more open and giving and (you guessed it beta) guys are giving up their attention, money, love but getting nothing in return.

possibly the worst thing you can do is over – reward her either before sex or after the first time.

This will send the signal that you value sex way too much from her and she will question your PS/value. It will also drop your value and kill all mystery/suspense/tension you’ve been building all along.

Sex is a womans job… its like when you work at the gas station you are expected to restock the cooler and be a cashier at the front.. you don’t get anything extra for doing your job … so why should she?

I was discussing this concept with a friend of mine and he made a joke about how every time he sees me talking to a hot girl I barely give her anything while keeping her attention kind of like a slot machine at the casino.. I just take everything they have over time. I thought it was funny because that same intermittent reward principle is what makes gambling so addictive and keeps people hooked… its like behavior exploitation 101.

Is it wrong to exploit situations and more importantly women? (im not talking about rape or anything serious here)

absolutely not.. what do you think women do to men all the time?

exploitation is the name of the game [more of that later]

I made a post a while back about how your value is pretty much all you have to a girl.. and if your value is low you’re fucked.

When in doubt… be the slot machine that gives little rewards every once in a while and keeps people excited and chasing… waiting for that.. DING DING DING JACKPOT moment that is seemingly impossible to attain.