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These elements are standard in all of my pickups now

but there was a time when I didn’t know about them or I would “get lucky” in some areas.

I decided to make a post about them since even the best game-guys can use reminders from time to time.

These are tremendously helpful.. In this post im going to go step by step and describe the concept.. give some examples.. and talk about how to make it work for you.

Creating preselection will be a separate post since the topic is HUGE.

If you can get these 3 things to work in a pickup I can almost guarantee you will get sex. (if the logistics are there)

Preselection (This is the Big Daddy of pickup concepts.. if you’ve got preselection you are way ahead of other guys..)

on the flip side.. if you don’t have preselection.. you will endure a torrent of shit tests and last minute resistance.. you will be scrutinized.. and probably lose the lay.

Enough pressure will crush anyone.. its better to avoid the pain and get this one right.

The worst is when you have negative preselection.. like if a girl sees 2 or 3 girls reject you.. don’t ever let that happen – and if it does just leave the venue.

The idea is that girls look to other girls to see who is going with what choice because there is limited time and information. If one girl sees that 5 other girls are all over a guy that guy is said to be “preselected”. This will make that girl assume that the preselected guy is valuable even if she knows nothing about him. The biggest problem with preselection is that its hard to fake.. you can’t just brag to a girl and say “I sleep with 9 girls a week” or something because that will come off as qualifying and she won’t believe it. This is also why many bloggers advocate flirting up girls and being social everywhere you go.. because to everybody else in the venue it looks as if you are preselected. Girls get jealous and think other girls want me when I take them on a date and talk to the waitress or something stupid like that.. milk it for all its worth.

A girl would much rather have a dude that other girls want.. especially if they are hot. If no hot girls want you.. make it look like they do without bragging

This is a Grouse

[Pre-selection is an evolutionary theory scientists figured out after watching animals. They discovered that when a male grouse (a type of bird) who wasn't mating with any females was put next to a stuffed female grouse, other females starting mating with him. works for humans too]

I mean shit.. imagine that.. the birds were like damn that grouse got a female next to him.. he must be good- so they start “banging” him.. And this poor bird didn’t get any before preselection.. dammmn.

neediness kills preselection

neediness kills preselection

neediness kills preselection

no females around = no preselection = needy = no sex.

The only thing worse than having no preselection (different from negative preselection.. just means you are still a mystery)

is getting blown out or showing that other girls AVOID you. Neediness and Clingyness (beta traits) are like the highway to killing preselection.

That “harmless” third text in a row without an answer that you sent is going to say to her “damn hes really chasing me.. he doesn’t have other girls.. must be something wrong with him”. The fucked up thing is.. they probably won’t even think that .. its all subconscious since they’ve screened so many guys. Like when I go to drive my 5-speed car I don’t think.. shit I gotta crank the rpms and shift into 2nd/3rd.. I just do it automatically.

Just like in the grouse example.. preselection can turn someone who doesn’t get laid into a superstar.. It can also do the opposite. (double edged sword)

if you don’t have it you have to learn to create it because as we all know every advantage needs to be squeezed for all its worth… not to mention you will get owned without it.

Soft Rejection (huge dhv roosh made a post about this so i’ll keep it brief)

lol

Girls must feel that you are a catch and that you didn’t just “fall into their lap”. This is where a little bit of token rejection works wonders. It’s almost like a push/pull

because you create this “artificial barrier” that she can break through. Once she does that.. its like the two of you are closer together and everything just connects.

For example: “I could never date blonde girls…” and the girl asks “why?” and you imply that you need a “smart girl”.. or.. “everything about you is great but

I don’t think that hair style is working for me.. it would look better if you wore it down”.

She can break that barrier pretty easily by showing you that shes actually pretty smart or changing the hair style.. this is totally different from like “I don’t date [insert birth ethnicity here ] girls” or some hard rejection that she can’t change.

By creating these “artificial barriers” you actually push her away temporarily and then have her pull you in to make the connection stronger and break the barrier.

Great stuff.

Willingness to walkaway (this is a form of preselection.. as well as you incite a fear of loss in the girl AND.. you make her chase.. which is so fucking key..this is not the same thing as rejecting her though)

A good piece of advice with girls; Offer as little as possible ( this is a huge display of value.. u don’t “need” to compensate for anything.. she has to win you over)

Have you ever had something taken away for a little bit (possibly dumped by a hot girl you really liked.. or maybe you lost your camera or ipod..)

It probably made you feel empty inside like the world was coming to an end..

This makes you a lot more careful in the future and it makes you value that item/person a lot more.. this is the power of “fear of loss” – it makes you appreciate shit.

The willingness to walkaway can be done wrong so many ways.. you have to pretty much threaten her with the loss of your presence at high points in the interaction

without killing the vibe or making her test you or being obvious about it (because then you really have to walk away..) [Willy Wonka did this perfectly with his Ex]

A great way to do this without walking away is to:

Offer as little as possible – Even talk slow to the point where you think.. wow im talking slow. If you start offering lots of things.. texting too often.. etc This will BREAK preselection. She will think “wow… he doesn’t talk to many girls if hes giving ME so much attention… I should find a valuable guy.

Guys this shit really is brutal… its not meant to be easy.. its meant to weed out the weak genes and match girls up to the strongest and the best.

The way to implement this;

when you meet a girl give her as little info as possible but get her contact info and suggest something.

When you communicate (phone/txt) keep the vibe playful – offer as little as possible but be mysterious.

Girls are masters at seeing value.

The combination of these three elements will turn you into a god for a short period of time.. I mean just imagine you’re preselected.. you give

the girl a soft rejection and throughout the night she is chasing you and she believes you are willing to walk away at any time. There will be no

last minute resistance.. no flakes.. the pussy is yours for as long as you want it.

Recap:

1. Create your own preselection. [future post on how to do this]

2. Show token rejection (soft rejection that she can break past eventually..)

3. Demonstrate that you are willing to walk away (fear of loss)