girls don’t do anything without a reason

sometimes the reason is subconsciously buried deep inside of the girl.. so its not like she verbally acknowledges everything but its still good enough for game purposes.

it took me a while to realize this – I used to always think stupid shit like “why is she so close to me.. must be coincidence” or “oh she must really wanna watch a movie at my place”

yeah f-kin right .. haha

girls know exactly what they want.. and they go about getting their way in the most subtle ways. Once you realize this.. your game grows exponentially.

“Opportunities multiply as they are seized”

-sun tzu

so basically if a girl says something or does something that seems to stand out (and you notice it).. theres a reason why.. you just have to figure out the reason and exploit the situation.

these things can be extremely subtle (like a girl isolating herself with you.. or going alone with you for a “car ride”) Sometimes a girl will stand close to you (proximity IoI’s) but if you don’t strike while the iron is hot you won’t get with her. You absolute MUST take advantage of these “gifts” as I call them. I mean shit.. at least try to escalate and grab her phone number if a same night lay is not possible

everyone gets these "random" opportunities at some point

Its crazy how many opportunities are out there and how many guys totally miss shit.. like a girl is ready and willing to fuck the guy if he had just pushed the limits a little bit but the guy is like “is she looking at me? what??” and screws it up.

so anyways today(couple days ago when i wrote the draft.. was rereading this and like.. wtf? lol) I got the following text msg from a girl that pushed the limits too hard (asking me lots of questions/being bitchy) and we got into a fight (i was ignoring her)

her: “Hey u havent drove ur motorcycle lately have you? there was a huge accident on [highway] by ur house with 5 of them! just making sure ur still alive”

I didn’t believe her so I actually googled and (3 days before she sent the text) there actually was a motorcycle accident.. however it was nowhere near my house.. (50 miles away ).

not to make light of a huge violent accident but I thought it was kind of funny that it took such a tragedy for me to get a text from this girl (sometimes when a girl really wants a guy she will be extra careful not to show him she cares cause she doesn’t wanna be too clingy and screw it up.. guys do the opposite naturally) [this is why push/pull works]

anyhow so I started thinking about it.. and I realized this was just her perfect excuse (plausible deniability) to talk to me. I mean it was like a light bulb went off

in her head that said “well I don’t wanna make it too obvious that I care about him and want to talk/fuck/whatever but hey I can use this horrible accident as an excuse to see if he is okay”

this is exactly how girls think.. of course I replied with the following (partially to reward her and partially to keep the chase going)

Takahashi, Dutch MotoGP 2009

me: “Aww how sweet of u. [her nickname for me] is safe “

her: “You know that death mobile scares the shit out of me not to mention you go like 120 on the damn thing” (It’s amazing what girls will assume if your bad boy image is tight..anyone else feel this text was a bit possessive like almost [I dont wanna lose you.. cus ur mine.. blah blah blah?])

Yes this is the image I use.. because of how fucking powerful it is.. You can pretty much just sit there and act like a total douche (which i’ve done before) and there will always be a few hot girls that want that. Its like if you see a guy in a suit you think business man.. smart.. honest.. the power of an image. being the prize is incredibly important too and goes along with your whole image and push/pull facade.

so where am I going with this story? Okay so 2 days later (after a few texts back and forth) the girl asks me what im doing Wednesday night and if she can “sleepover and watch movies”. Now I know you guys all understand what this means.. especially because i’ve never actually done anything remotely fun with this girl and theres no friend/hangout pretense here. I keep the “roles” very clear. She is the woman that is there to please me and make me happy.. thats her job.. I am the man that makes the rules.

So at this point its clear to me that she just wants to get laid but is being very clever about how she words things so that it “just happens”. (plausible deniability.. after all she just wanted to watch movies right?)

I know the average man would immediately agree to such a circumstance but I want her to feel like she earned it ( I genuinely want to fuck this girl ) and there is a chance that she is seeing just how available I am. Making a girl feel like she earned something is also a way to combat flakes.. don’t be too available. I forget who but one of the bloggers wrote a post about how when you win those stupid cracker jack box prizes you go and collect your prize anyway.. even though you know its stupid but because you “won” it theres some entitlement.. same idea here.

me: “I can only hang out for an hour on Wednesday.. I’ve got a lot of plans” (this cuts to the chase.. I mean either she wants sex or not)

her:  ”okay.. well we can skip the movie ” [theres a lot of subtle sexual communication here.. shes pretty much assuming we are fucking.. and asking me if thats okay]

me:  ”sounds good”

Yeah… I win.