I think im going to have some fun with this post..
The emasculation of men and the rise of feminism has really screwed up the roles of a normal relationship..
just a forewarning: some of the info in this post will be hard to stomach (it even was for me at one point)
and I know a few readers might disagree.. but this is not a be all end all post.. in other words.. you can scale
this down to whatever you are comfortable with just to see the results.. 
I am just writing this from my experiences and results
Okay so you guys are wondering.. wait.. why do I want to be an asshole?
Let me make a bad analogy about game.. If you are in a fight and you start hitting somebody really hard in the face.. they are going to go on the defensive and get real scared. They aren’t going to be able to hurt you as much.. if you go into a fight and just stand there.. that person will inflict terrible terrible damage on you. Girls are no exception.. the only difference is they wont harm you physically but will take a mental toll on your health. They will break you down and rip you apart if you don’t put them on the defensive and make them work for you. Its a kill or be killed idea.
ask yourself:
is being a nice guy working out for you? are you finding girls to be accomodating and sensitive to your issues or are they being bitches
trying to get every last drop of your weakness to show? Exactly.
Being a bully/asshole is a way of jockeying for status thats been around forever. The most aggressive person usually wins and for good reason ; it usually means they are the strongest (alpha male). Its not hard to win against 1 woman but its important and some people can’t even do that.
People wonder all the time why killers (the crazy guy in peru) get marriage proposals (as in more than one) from women they’ve never met. Why drug dealers and badboys always have the hottest girls while betaboy billionaires like (mark Z facebook creator) have nothing. If you can’t beat them.. join them.. theres no reason to wonder why something works when you can just emulate it and get results..
implementation of this list correctly (calibration..social intuition..not pushing it too far) will be the biggest game increase most of you guys will see.
I’ve deviated from the list a few times thinking to myself “shit .. I’ve got this one in the bag.. I can break my own rules and be nice to this girl” Almost never works.
The important thing this list does is.. it sets the roles for the relationship. anytime the roles get ambiguous (credit Paul Janka) the relationship/fuckbuddy/whatever falls apart.
When the roles are clear everything runs smoothly:
your role : you are a man that makes the rules
her role : she is a woman that bends to your power and tries to please you
again with this list.. DO NOT overdo this.. start small one thing at a time.. as she gets used to her role.. increase it.. When you first meet a girl just start out by challenging her and not giving in to her demands.. you can do more as your reaction judging skill increases. Never apologize or go back on it even if you overstepped the boundary.. better to lose a girl than to lose self respect (and my respect)
1. Ignore girls.. tell them you will call back later and don’t do it. (same goes for plans.. flake on them)
2. If a girl ever does anything you don’t approve of.. just hang up or walk away. don’t explain yourself. If you two live together or you can’t leave easily just ignore her
and slowly warm up as she tries harder to please you (your rules are more important than her)
i’ve done this in a restaurant before (dinner date) where a girl pulled out her phone a second time after I made a comment about it.. the food was already there.. (she was going to pay) and I got up and just walked outside..
she paid for it.. apologized.. and took me to another place where I could tell she was afraid of doing anything wrong.. (sounds outrageous right? well it works)
3. Occassionally answer the question “why haven’t you called/txt’d?” with “I replaced you with another girl”
4. Pit girls against each other.. make them compete for an ounce of your time.
3. Agree to certain things and break the deal later…
4. Never.. Ever be nice.. be mean to her regularly.
5. call her names and tease her about everything
6. Make her do things for you like buy you things.. pump gas.. etc
7. If the situation warrants it, yell at a girl and don’t hold back.. Anger is a turn on!
8. real assholes don’t limit themselves to this list.. everyone can be a bigger asshole.
Now I want you to ask yourself.. am I comfortable with these rules (esp #2,#3, #5)
if not.. you just figured out your problem.. too nice/ too needy/ too beta / too weak/ too accomodating.
a Girl has a choice between 1000 guys.. why would she pick 1 of the 999 pushovers? I know why.. cus when shes 45 her biological clock is about to expire ..
Now im not saying to go out there and be mean all the time.. but you have to show the girl who is in charge.
You also have to balance out the being mean with being aloof.
Percentages as follows: aloof/normal 50%, mean 40%, nice/reward 10%
if you deviate from the ratio you will get horrific results.
too much nice =betaboy
too much mean = she won’t talk to you anymore
too much normal = she won’t respect you and will get bored.
Why are more people not implementing this list and sticking to their rules? because they are AFRAID.. because they dont have OPTIONS.
If girl 1 fails there isn’t a girl 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 to make it work with.. Do you guys understand the level of desperation that most men exhude!
Girls can read this like a book.
The scary part about this list? (you guys think im joking) but this actually works
August 13th, 2010 at 12:46 pm
I have a question re ignoring. How do you really do this properly? The reason I ask is that with my last live in LTR, when she did something i didn’t like, I would go quiet and just do my own thing and ignore her. However, she constantly kept asking me what’s wrong and it escalated into an argument from there.
I recently found your blog and I am enjoying it tremendously. Will write more in the future. Keep up the good work.
August 13th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
You can let it escalate into an argument.
You just need to be *consistent* and be able to carry off the asshole role properly.
August 13th, 2010 at 3:12 pm
well basically ignoring= taking away your attention, validation, and approval. When the girl says “I wanna go do xyz with you” you decline. So just like Gorbachev said.. you have to be consistent. What I usually do is make the girl apologize and make it up to me.. but I increase what she has to do each time she fucks up so she knows that she can’t just break the rules and fix it easily.
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if a girl asks whats wrong.. thats either her having no clue or her pretending to be innocent in which case you should say something like: “Don’t talk to me..im mad at you” and continue until she submits.
August 13th, 2010 at 10:20 pm
Don’t take this advise too literally. You will fuck up your long-term relationship if you do. The key point here is just self-respect. Pulling out the phone for the 2nd time is very rude – it’s a normal reaction to just walk away if you’ve just met this girl or dating her casually.
However, it is an absolutely fucked up reaction to walk away on your wife or a long-term girlfriend like that. It’s overboard. SHE would be the one to get offended and she would be right. Saying something like “What the fuck, Kate?” and acting a little mad or disgusted for a while until she genuinely apologizes would do. Of course, the more she does it the more you react. If she keeps doing it despite the fact she knows it pisses you off, maybe at one point you should walk away and that’ll be adequate.
It’s all about self-respect. It’s no different with men or women. And if you don’t have self-respect but resort to passive aggressive behavior after having been violated by somebody, this post will probably not help you. You just have to learn to stand up for yourself.
If you can do it with other men, just don’t treat girls any different. They will appreciate that.
[editor] The post is mostly geared towards girls you are casually seeing or dating. For long term relationships the rules are a bit different..
As always.. calibration is key.. I am just showing the ends of the spectrum (not saying this is a must do for every girl you meet)
As far as marriage.. thats a mistake..
August 13th, 2010 at 10:23 pm
to the author: if you need to be mean 40% of the time, you’re probably dating some fucked up girls. A normal woman would leave you if you’re mean with her for no reason. I certainly would not hang out with anyone like that. So, I guess, they give you enough reasons to be mean with them 40% of the time. Believe me, not all girls are like that.
[editor] I believe you completely.. I think you speak of EE(eastern european) girls who have feminine qualities and a nice charm. That is a completely different story and i’ve seen great things happen with them.. however.. I am writing mostly about american girls .. who unfortunately are pretty fucked up!
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August 17th, 2010 at 9:54 am
Good stuff.
My parents raised me to be a gentlemen. More like a beta. I have made incredible strides in the past few months. Asshole game does work. All the time.
Just found your blog, paul, I will be visiting regularly.
August 17th, 2010 at 1:30 pm
thanks! yeah the gentleman thing is so rough.. because a lot of people are nice deep down and its hard to adapt to the ruthless world of game.
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