Its not personal… its just game

Game is not personal.

Girls are not personal.

this is the biggest drawback, but also the biggest stepping stone.

outcome dependence, desperation, and taking things personally are the three biggest

game-killers.

when a girl rejects you (in the field) it has nothing at all to do with you as a person. she does not know the real you.. she is just judging loosely that your image/clothing/attitude/whatever is not significantly better than her. This is no big deal.. if it happens often.. change your shit up.

even if a girl would sleep with you… she might reject you because there is a hotter guy she wants to get with that night.. its all about bitches trying to maximize.. like little kids in the candy store

You could even be equal or better than a girl.. and still get rejected – it might even be an ego trip for a girl trying to show off in front of her friends (yeah they do some fucked up shit)

in fact you should be happy when a girl rejects you; she is saving you a hassle with something that will either never work out or you will have to do 90% of the work just to hit it (the sex won’t even be that good)

Ego is a great thing for motivation and personality.. but its a terrible thing to bring into the field. In fact.. just forget all about ego when you go to a social place to meet women because it will hurt you more than it will help.

the biggest mental/emotional hurt somebody can inflict on you is when they reject you as a person.. when they know everything about you and they still think you suck and you’re garbage.

for example: girl: “hey frank! you’re a piece of shit because your favorite music is backstreet boys and you love to eat nachos. Who does that? ? What a fucking failure at life Frank.. I can’t believe you and all the stupid shit you do!! we’re through!!!

(I know its a silly example.. but thats my point)

when you approach a hot girl and she doesn’t like the hat you are wearing or some other stupid thing.. and says “I have to get back to my friends” thats not even a real rejection.

when you’re in the field and the girl doesn’t wanna fuck you.. that has nothing to do with you as a person.. its not personal.. let it go.

she doesn’t even KNOW YOU..

for example:

cue- fat ass girl.

okay now would you want to fuck her? NO! (shes a celebrity but still)

is it personal? nope

is it because you HATE her as a person and think shes a piece of shit? nope.. shes just a bit too fat for your liking.. girls are the same way.. maybe she wants a masculine guy that will push her around and you come off as a weak nerdy type (I hope not if ur reading this blog haha)

Girls might reject you.. but it has nothing to do with you as a person. They might flake on you but don’t let your ego get hurt.. some girls just won’t find you hot.. maybe you should work your appearance better? better yet.. hit the bar with your best friends and have a great night regardless.

Okay Okay so getting flaked on sucks, so does rejection… but.. what about when I win? don’t girls love me for who I am

on the other hand.. when you succeed.. realize that its not because so and so loves you as a person. some girls are after your six pack.. or your money. Some are with you because of the fucked up chemical imbalances known as push/pull game that you create and fill in their brain.

this is why I don’t believe in love.. I don’t think there is such a thing as unconditional love. Sometimes people feel strong chemical reactions and they interpret that as love.. but when the chemicals fade.. so does the relationship. The closest thing I can think of is a mothers love for a child and thats not a fair comparison because thats family.

It’s kinda sad some of my friends are like “yo man, me and this girl love each other blah blah she would never do anything bad and then I see her flirting it up with me.” im not gonna say anything but like. ughh

You don’t believe me? try out this experiment..

try getting fat while you have a girlfriend. If thats too much to ask.. wear low end clothes that looks really bad.. and act like a tool for a few days.. you will be amazed.

you will see love vanish faster than you can say.. Holy fuck!!

so there you have it ladies and gentlemen… Game is just Game- don’t let the flakes upset you, and don’t let the rejects bother you. (see what i did there? haha)

If you played a game on xbox (halo for example) and you lost the game.. would you feel bad and think about your life and all kinds of stuff all day?

these days.. I get more pissed off if I lose in a competitive video game than if a girl rejects me or flakes..

go out there and hit that pussy hard!