Quitting while you’re ahead..Risk/Reward

Many players forget that seduction has 2 directions. Sometimes we get so caught up in the moment and in ourselves

that we don’t realize what we have until we’ve lost it.  Just like you can escalate and get her number, you can also de-escalate and get blown out.

I’ve noticed that when things aren’t working and the girl pulls back a bit.. you have to pull back more and wait it out.. if you want a sure thing.

Neediness comes from a lack of comfort.. this is actually a lack of inner game. if you can be happy and comfortable with yourself as a person then you won’t leak out neediness because you won’t actually be needy.

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In other words, you can go backwards and fuck up your chances…

Quitting while you’re ahead- (little bit of a life story)

One night I went with some friends to go play no limit Texas hold em at the local casino.. blinds were $1/$2 and the average buyin was $200. At first, I was losing money and getting a lot of bad luck.. I was down like $150 but I just kept going. I wasn’t going to give up that easily.. Eventually I raised up an Ace King of spades and flopped the nut flush. I got a few callers but I was mostly worried about the guy who got extremely lucky against me earlier. The guy who called me had a Queen Ten and flopped two pair. I checked it and slowplayed it and this convinced him that he outflopped me. My raise was pretty big so there was $ in the pot and the guy wanted to end the hand as soon as possible. He bet $65 on the flop which I just called. The turn card was a blank (didn’t help any draws) so I checked and he started to realize “holy shit this guy definitely has something.. I better end this now before he catches his card” so he announces “Im all in”. He had about $300 behind him and “call” was the first thing I said as I flipped over the nut flush. The river didn’t give him a queen or a ten (I would have been so pissed) and I scooped this massive pot. The guy was totally destroyed and in disbelief. Shortly after, the table broke up and I was faced with a choice. I could cash out the $500 in front of me – taking about $300 as profit as well as the fun experience or I could go to another table. This is basically the gambler’s dilemma.. do you quit while you’re ahead or do you push your luck.

What I ended up doing isn’t important [ hows that for mystery? ] — this ties into pickup.

Sometimes you are ahead- all you need to do is back off a bit and let time do the rest. If a girl is really happy with you but sex isn’t going to happen.. theres no reason to push the interaction and risk losing what you’ve built. Always be unpredictable. If you have a date that went really well.. resist the urge to call her up and try to get even more.. you are risking fucking up the whole thing if you do.

When it comes to game, quitting while you’re ahead is actually the best course of action most of the time. If you don’t ever stop.. that means you won’t stop after mistakes.

Speaking of mistakes…

Cutting your losses at the first sign of trouble and giving it some time is powerful. If you text a girl the wrong thing or you fuck up somehow just back off for a bit and let some time pass- then try again.

NEVER CHASE!!!

this is why I love text game. It is powerful and it is low investment.

If she answers you can build things up to sex just from text messages (over an extended period of time, I’ve done it)

If she doesn’t answer.. oh no.. its just a fucking text message.. who cares.. ur still in the game

Wait…text…wait…text…wait..text – thats how it goes!

Lets say you meet the girl in person and you fuck up so she blows you off.. you think theres going to be a date 2?

High reward comes with high risk.

Lets say you call the girl and you’re awkward because phone calls are in real-time.. think shes gonna wanna meet up?

what if she doesn’t answer– that makes you look like a tool and makes her wanna not answer the next time you call!

This brings me to my next point>

DO NOT DELETE PHONE NUMBERS–even if you are done with a girl.. theres no reason to delete it!

If you would fuck the girl (you wouldn’t ask her number if you didn’t think she was cute at some point) don’t get rid of your prospects.

keep a list on a separate piece of paper of every name in your phone with a small detail so you don’t forget who somebody is.

for example:

Jessica-74832832222-Met this chick out at [bar] on [date] she had [xcolor hair] [nice ass] [color] eyes. rating: 7/10

simple, informative, and powerful!

I’ve gotten a lay from a girl I thought I had no chance with because her number was 4 months old using MTM(mass text method) one year just by sending out : “Happy new year!”

The girl responded something like “Hey you too!! what are you up to?” and I invited her over to a small house party.

the key:

Right now im having a hard time keeping up with the girls in rotation so I don’t text as much as I should but its nice knowing that I’ve always got that supply of numbers. Its a social thing as much as it is a pickup thing. Every once in a while sending a mass text with the words “Hey, how are you? ” will actually build/expand your social circle so fast it isn’t even funny. Just imagine that girl you met in a club is sad at home one day and she gets a text like this..

numbers are investments. they are worthless if you don’t cultivate them

A lot of times you can just send a mass text to like 20-30 girls on certain days (valentines day, fourth of july, maybe you want to invite em to a party) and a good 5-10 of them will respond.

Flakes are not always your fault.. some girls just find a boyfriend and ignore all other guys.. If you aren’t willing to be patient and wait.. you are killing off 90% of your possible lays

Time is your friend!! people change.. situations change.. don’t give up!

If you push it too far with something sexually charged (I have on a few occasions) and the girl doesn’t respond but you don’t have time on your side you can always go for a hail Mary:

“omg, don’t judge me!” [as if you just realized that you blurted out something and you care about how you come across]

this line is powerful because it will sub communicate that you understand, that you are “in”, and she will totally relate to you as girls hate being judged and having to pretend they aren’t sluts.

most girls will instantly connect with you after this and answer with something like the following:

“not you, hun I was just thinking about [xyz]“

Enjoy!